How to Turn Paying Bills Into a Manifesting Practice (Yes, Really!)
My credit card bill arrived last week, and before the number even loaded on my screen, my whole body did a tiny clench 😬
Here’s the funny part… the amount was completely normal. My shoulders had tightened anyway, out of sheer habit, like the bill was an opponent I needed to defend myself against.
I had been paying my bills in the energy of losing something. Every single payment felt like money being taken from me (goodbye, money! 😢)
Here’s what I know about money and energy: the state you’re in when money leaves your hands shapes your relationship with abundance just as much as the state you’re in when money arrives.
The Universe responds to the energy of every exchange, including the ones where money flows out. When you wince your way through each payment, your energy contracts around money — and contraction closes the very door you want wide open.
I want to be clear about something here, because I know money can be a complicated topic. If finances are tight for you right now, that clench makes complete sense, and I would never ask you to pretend a big bill feels wonderful. The invitation is simply to notice what the money brought you, which is true whatever the number says.
So here’s what I’ve been doing lately, and it costs exactly zero dollars 😄
Before I pay a bill, I take 1 Healing Breath of Gratitude (here’s how to do this) and thank the money for what it already gave me.
How to take 1 Healing Breath of Gratitude: Bring to mind one thing money made possible for you today — maybe the warmth of your morning shower or the lamp glowing beside you right now. Feel a gentle thank you rising in your body. Then place your hands over your heart and take one conscious breath, in for 3 counts and out for 6. That’s it — you’re done in seconds ✨
My credit card bill? That’s fun days at the cinema, and business expenses that give me so much joy (like this email service provider that allows me to connect with my beautiful community 💖)
The payment stays exactly the same, and the energy around it transforms completely.
When you spend with gratitude, you’re showing the Universe that money flowing out is part of a healthy circulation, the very same current that carries money in. Your whole energy gets to relax around the flow, which gives abundance somewhere to arrive ✨
Here’s my invitation for you this week: choose one payment that usually makes you wince, and try paying it with a thank you. Take 1 Healing Breath of Gratitude first, then name one thing that money gave you before you hit “pay.”
Notice how different the whole exchange feels in your body.
As for my credit card bill and me? We’re on much better terms these days. I might even call us friends 😅
